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Once when making a pastoral visit to a resident at a care center, I spent a few minutes with him to get acquainted and then offered to pray with him. As I was preparing to leave, he asked, “Are you leaving already? Can’t you stay for a while?”
That caused me to stop and think. In fact, I moved close to his wheelchair to talk and listen and stayed for a while longer. Upon my preparing to leave the second time he said, “Now come again and see me next week!”
It gave me pause to stop and ask myself, “Am I taking enough time to just be with the people my life touches every day and those who are close to me?” It means stopping what one is doing long enough to sit down with them. It means listening. It means being interested in another. Even though some may struggle to hear you, you can still give them the gift of your attention. Take time to show up, to visit, to Just Be with them.
We all need relationships. We need someone with whom to talk, someone who listens to us, someone to sit by, someone with whom to eat a meal, and someone to love. Love is shown in many ways, but one of the strongest ways is taking time to be together.
That applies to our relationship with the Lord Jesus also. Jesus commended Mary, the sister of Martha, for taking time to sit and listen to Him, to learn from Him, just to be with Him. “Mary sat before the Master hanging on every word he said” (Luke 10:39). Jesus commended her by saying this was the most essential part and Mary chose well (verse 42).
My prayer for this month is:
Lord, help me choose well to take time to just be with You, and to be fully present with those around me.
Written by Chaplain Sherree Lane
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Here is the fourth response in the series of notes we received from our residents about how they met their "Valentine":
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